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    Give Life One More Chance

    Stop scrolling, this is for you. Now that you’ve arrived, do you realize how long I’ve awaited this moment? You may find yourself wondering, "How could you have waited for me if we've never crossed paths?" But trust me, to the person reading this, you are precisely the one I have been writing to all along. You may not fully comprehend the extent of your importance to me—and to this world. Why would you ever believe you're insignificant or not important?

    You hold great significance to me, but first, you must learn to prioritize yourself. Why are you allowing yourself to be wasted? You don’t understand your own value. You can’t even begin to imagine how precious you are. Your smile, your eyes, your voice—your very life—are all incredibly precious and valuable. My dear reader, don’t doubt your importance. Not everyone can afford a diamond. Anyone who makes you doubt your worth simply isn’t capable of recognizing it.

    Life is a blessing, and your life is a gift. Gifts must be cherished and cared for. So why are you letting yourself become disheartened and disrespecting yourself when you are such a beautiful gift to this world? Let me tell you a secret that no one else has shared with you: You are irreplaceable. Someone might take your place, but they can never be you. You are unique, with your own traits and qualities. But right now, you’re focusing on things that make you compare yourself to others. If you keep paying attention to them, you'll lose your true self. You’ll start to dress yourself according to their thoughts and negativity instead of your own.

    Do you realize that you are the reason behind someone’s smile, the reason behind someone’s life? But you’re thinking, "No one understands me". How can someone understand you if you don’t understand yourself? If you find yourself in confusion, make an effort to clarify things, especially if the relationship matters to you. But if, after that, they still misunderstand you, then accept that at least you tried. If they didn’t understand, that’s their fault, not yours. I bet you, if you feel no one cares, I really care about you. You are so important to me. But I will be even happier when you make yourself your priority.

    If you're struggling to find meaning or purpose in life, then make it your purpose to be a reason for someone else's happiness, someone else's motivation, and someone else's courage. But if all of this feels overwhelming, then stop for a moment. Take a deep breathe—one, two, three. Now ask yourself, why is it so easy to disappear rather than face hardships with a smile? Life is like a box of unopened chits—each chit represents an opportunity or a decision. Don’t break the box without reading them all. If you have 100 reasons to be sad, then, in the opposite way, you’ll have 200 reasons to be happy. But you have to seek them out. Your purpose is always in front of you, but you can’t see it because you started writing the lesson without first learning how to write the sentence.

    Dear sparkling star, don’t let your light fade away. Keep shining, no matter how dark the night may seem. Your light is a guide for others, even when you can’t see it yourself. Life will present challenges, but always remember: You are irreplaceable, and your worth is immeasurable. Even when doubt creeps in, don’t let the darkness convince you that your light isn’t needed. You are a blessing to this world, and your unique presence makes all the difference. So take a moment, breathe, and release your worries. You are exactly as you should be, and the world needs you to keep shining.

    Take a look at the past years of your life and remind yourself that you haven’t been wasted. You will fulfil your dreams. My dear reader, the wisdom and motivation you’re searching for are already within you. The problem isn’t that they’re missing; it’s that you haven’t yet opened the path to reach them. Instead, you’re focusing on things that aren’t important. If you continue focusing on these things, you'll only feel regret, which leads to guilt—the root of depression.

    I know it hurts, and it feels like your heart is breaking into pieces. But, my dearest, you must push through. This pain will pass, and the future will be brighter. When you look back, you’ll realize that this moment was just a stepping stone. The challenges you face today will change, but remember: If you lose hope, how will you ever recover? You are your own greatest inspiration. External motivation is temporary, but self-motivation is permanent and far more reliable.

    Stop trying to prove you’re the best. If you truly are, the world will recognize it on its own. From now on, stop living your life based on other’s expectations. Do what makes you happy, without needing anyone’s approval. Stop trying to mold yourself into something you’re not. You are human, with both good and bad traits. Perfection doesn’t exist—no one is without flaws. Everyone makes mistakes, but it’s through those mistakes that we learn and grow. It’s time to improve yourself and discover your true purpose. You’re not here by accident, so stop wasting time on things that don’t serve you.

    You may be going through a difficult moment right now, feeling unsure, down, or misunderstood. But why let others define you by their perspective? Remember, you are who you are, and that is enough. Stop giving so much weight to other people’s opinions. If you're trying to please others, know that no matter how much of yourself you give, it will never be enough for some. People may criticize you, but don't let that define your worth. You have the power to turn their negative views into admiration—it's all within you, waiting to be unleashed.

    This is your life, your journey. It's your chance to prove to yourself who you really are. You are important—believe it. If you question that, ask yourself why I am writing this to you and why you are reading it right now. This is no coincidence; it's a sign. God has led me to share this with you because He wants you to realize your worth. He wants you to grow stronger and know that you are far from worthless.

    You are already the best version of yourself, and you don't need to strive for some elusive idea of "perfection". You are more than enough as you are. If you don’t believe in God, consider this: how did I come to write these words, and how are you able to read them? The Greatest of All created this moment for you because He knows your struggles, your pain, and your journey. He wants you to become stronger. Whether people stand by you or not, know that He is always with you.

    Take a moment. Close your eyes, place your hand over your heart, and ask with sincerity: "Lord, make it easy for me". Feel the peace wash over you as you connect with that inner calm. Ask for guidance on your path, and for clarity in your purpose. When you start talking to Him daily, you'll feel a sense of healing—like someone is gently erasing your pain. You are never alone, and through this connection, you can find the strength to overcome anything.

    At first, you may feel awkward or even think this is nonsense. But, dear friend, if I could ask just one thing of you, would you do it for me? If any part of this message touches your heart, please take a moment to truly hear it. You are beautiful, and all you need is to believe in yourself and in your Lord.

    Everyone’s life has its ups and downs, but it is those who face their struggles with courage—believing in themselves and in their Lord—who discover their true strength. Trust that He is always by your side, guiding you through every challenge. These hurdles are not obstacles; they are opportunities to grow stronger and to deepen your connection with your Lord.

    You may be facing difficulties in life right now, but it's important to learn from your mistakes and hardships. Take a step to overcome your depression and anxiety by believing in yourself. You have the courage within you; all you need is a deep connection with your inner self.

    Stop avoiding your problems. Face them head-on until you succeed. It doesn’t matter how many times you fail—each failure brings a lesson to help you grow. Trust me: disappearing from your challenges is never the solution.

    You are blessed with countless blessings. Just take a moment to look at yourself, and you’ll realize how much you’ve been given. Life doesn’t serve up fame, money, success, or health on a silver platter. These things come as a result of consistent hard work and dedication.

    You are valuable, but you must demonstrate that to yourself through your actions, not by succumbing to depression. Keep in mind, dear reader, that life is filled with challenges, and the more you face, the greater your opportunity to grow and transform. When you begin to recognize the struggles others are enduring, you’ll realize that your own problems may not be as overwhelming in comparison. The challenges they face might be beyond what you can handle.

    The hope you've been searching for has always been inside you. It resides in your strength, your resilience, and your ability to rise above any challenge. When I reach out to you next, I want you to fully believe in your own wisdom. I hope this message helps heal the broken pieces of your heart and brings you closer to the person you're meant to be. Stand strong and stay true to yourself, for you have so much to offer—not only to yourself but to the world around you. From this moment forward, I hope you give your life one more chance. Stay blessed. And so, this chapter comes to a close.